Red Green Repeat Adventures of a Spec Driven Junkie

Great Person and Valuable Send Off

When I found out about a great person and valuable friend was in a tough situation I asked myself, what’s the best thing to do in this situation?

Like with anything you love dearly, honor them.

To me, I asked: “What can I do to send them off with love?”

Regardless of all my regrets of not doing more before - I chose to be present - here and now, because that’s all we have and I want to maximize this.

I decided to spend as much time as possible together. Even taking a flight even after years of fearing flights. The timing magically worked out at home where it was easy for me to leave my family.

The other is that I took the attitude of the great person and valuable friend will live - nothing more, nothing less. They are still a person and they will be moving onto a better place.

I also relished every moment we had together - where we relived the times that made us awesome friends. Stepping into those moments again, I treasure them.

Even before we met up - I wrote and posted as much as I could about how great this person and how valuable they are to me. Sharing these articles with them was special too.

The circle of life continues - and I miss you a lot great person and valuable friend. It’s because of you that I now know how to send others off: with love.